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Zelf noem ik het onbegrijpelijk gedrag. Want dat is het vaak: onbegrijpelijk. En
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honger heeft en weigert te eten. Of als ze na het avondeten ineens haar jas
aantrekt omdat ze naar buiten wil. Echt, sommige dingen kun je iedere keer opnieuw
zeggen maar het helpt echt niet. “Ze vergeten dat gewoon” zeggen dan
goedbedoelende vrienden. Dat mag dan wel zo wezen maar het maakt mijn leven
moeilijker dan nodig. Neem nou bijvoorbeeld op tijd naar de WC gaan. Als ik al aan
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later een natte broek. Terwijl ze voor een luier echt de leeftijd niet meer heeft
moeten wij daar dan toch aan geloven. Onbegrijpelijk. O ja, en ruzie maken. Zet er
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