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<span class=outlineNumberFirst>6.9.5 </span><span class=topicLineFirst>Love</span>
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<div class="topicTextNotes"><div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>Description</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Love is a massive
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motivator and can lead people to perform all kinds of self- sacrificial acts. </span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Three styles of
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love are (Sternberg):</span></font><span></span></div>
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Intimacy</i>: Closeness to, and liking
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of, the other person. </span></font><span></span></li>
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<li style="margin-left=-3mm; margin-right=0mm; padding-left=0mm; font-family= Times New Roman; font-size= 12pt; font-style= italic; "><font
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Passion</i>: Intense longing and physiological
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arousal. Ecstasy on reciprocation, despair
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on rejection. </span></font><span></span></li>
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Commitment</i>: The readiness to do
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anything for the sake of the love. </span></font><span></span></li>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">These combine to
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Liking</i>: Intimacy alone </span></font><span></span></li>
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Infatuation</i>: Passion alone </span></font><span></span></li>
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<li style="margin-left=-3mm; margin-right=0mm; padding-left=0mm; font-family= Times New Roman; font-size= 12pt; font-style= italic; "><font
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Empty love</i>: Commitment alone </span></font><span></span></li>
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Romantic love</i>: Passion + Intimacy. </span></font><span></span></li>
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Companionate love</i>: Intimacy + Commitment </span></font><span></span></li>
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Fatuous love</i>: Passion + Commitment </span></font><span></span></li>
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Consummate love</i>: Intimacy + Passion
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+ Commitment </span></font><span></span></li>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">The games of love
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are played on six different stages, and individuals will have preferred modes
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(Lee):</span></font><span></span></div>
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Eros</i>: Passionate and physical. Looks
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are important. </span></font><span></span></li>
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Ludus</i>: love as a non-serious game.
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Harm is not intended but often happens. </span></font><span></span></li>
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Storge</i>: slow-growing, evolving out
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of friendship and affection. Similarity is important. </span></font><span></span></li>
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Pragma</i>: Commonsense and pragmatic.
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Known conditions must be met. </span></font><span></span></li>
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Mania</i>: An emotional roller-coaster.
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Stereotyped romantic love. </span></font><span></span></li>
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt"><i>Agape</i>: Unselfish and giving. Spiritual
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and other-focused. </span></font><span></span></li>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>Example</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Many romantic mismatches
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occur when partners both state their love for one another, but each
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is talking about a different style of love. Maybe you have experience of this? </span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>So what?</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="4"><span style="font-size:14pt"><b>Using it</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">If you want blind
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followers, look good and build a passionate image. Otherwise find the history
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of love of the other person and play to their needs.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Great sales people
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know that the true secret is to love both their products and their customers.
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They also know that true love binds, and devious trickery is out of the question.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="4"><span style="font-size:14pt"><b>Defending</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">If you dive into
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love heart first, pause first and ask whether the other person is truly committed.
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Beware of blind love. Love can be the best thing ever, but also know that love hurts, especially
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when betrayed.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>References</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Hendrick and Hendrick
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(1986, 1992), Lee (1973, 1988), Sternberg and Barnes (1988)</span></font><span></span></div></div>
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