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<span class=outlineNumberFirst>6.9.9 </span><span class=topicLineFirst>Contentment</span>
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<div class="topicTextNotes"><div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>Contentment
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is</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">When we are contented,
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we are in a stable state where there are relatively few emotions to
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drive us into any particular other action.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Contentment is
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often the result of the resolution of tension where, having resolved a difficulty or
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achieved a goal, we have a feeling of satisfaction.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">The problem with
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contentment is that we tend not to stay there for long. Other emotions arise,
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from curiosity to </span></font><a href="Fear.html#Topic20" ><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span
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style="font-size:12pt">fear</span></font></a><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">,
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which then trigger us into further action.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>Getting to contentment</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">To get to contentment
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means releasing all tensions which stop us from being contented. This
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means achieving all goals and needs and not setting up other goals.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">There are many
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esoteric techniques which are used to get to contentment, from meditation to
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Tai Chi. The general approach they use is quieting and focusing of the mind on something.
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Sometimes mantras that repeat a sentence in the mind are used to distract and silence the
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subconscious and the inner voice that nags us into actions.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="6"><span style="font-size:24pt"><b>So what?</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">To motivate other
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people, it can be useful to help them resolve other tensions first. If you can
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get them into a contented state then you have a 'clean slate' from which to start and where they
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are less likely to be distracted by other things. Helping them to contentment also builds trust.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>See also</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Lazarus, R. and
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Lazarus, B. (1994), <i>Passion and Reason</i>, Oxford University Press, New
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York</span></font><span></span></div></div>
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