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<span class=outlineNumberFirst>6.9.2 </span><span class=topicLineFirst>Hope</span>
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<div class="topicTextNotes"><div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>What is hope?</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Hope happens when
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someone sees something, decides that it is desirable, realizes that they
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may not get it, but believes that there is still a chance of getting it.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">To put it tersely,
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though perhaps in a complex way, hope is expectation moderated by
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probabilistic estimation of a desired event.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">For hope to be
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a strong force for tension, the person's estimation that the desired event will
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occur must be both high enough for them to consider there to be a reasonable chance of it
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happening, yet not so high that they become complacent.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Charles Revson,
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founder of the famous Revlon cosmetics empire famously said that what he
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sold was 'hope'.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="4"><span style="font-size:14pt"><b>Fear</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Fear is a form
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of negative hope. Both are forms of anticipation as we forecast the future and
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experience emotions in line with our predictions.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>The sliding
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scale</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Hope is not a single
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thing. It is more of a sliding scale that ranges across a scale from virtual
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certainty to utter desperation. It can range within a single conversation across this whole
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spectrum. You can raise a person's hope, dash it on the rocks of uncertainty, raise it out of the
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waters and toss it around until the other person will grasp at whatever straw you throw at them.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="4"><span style="font-size:14pt"><b>The hope curve</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">The actual hope
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that people feel does not necessarily match the real probability of success.
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Typically we feel optimistic or pessimistic at the extremes. </span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">At zero probability,
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we are realistically pessimistic, and we stay this way until there is sufficient
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probability to break out of the fear of loss. As the event becomes more likely, we become
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disproportionately optimistic. </span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="center"><img src="NotesImages/Topic18NotesImage4.jpg" align="bottom" width="322" height="256" border="0" alt="graphic" /></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>Types of hope</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">There are (at least)
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three types of hope:</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="4"><span style="font-size:14pt"><b>Desperation</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Desperate hope
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is when a deep need is felt. Someone who is desperate will do almost anything
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to satisfy the hope (with 'almost anything' being in proportion to the level of desperation).</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="4"><span style="font-size:14pt"><b>Optimism</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Whereas desperate
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hope often has a negative connotation, optimistic hope is often positive. In
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both cases, the probability of achieving the hoped-for thing can be very variable, often sitting at
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a very low probability of occurring.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="4"><span style="font-size:14pt"><b>Realistic hope</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Realistic hope
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is based on a fair estimation of probabilities. Thus, if something is over (say)
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50% likely, then I might realistically hope that it will happen.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>Hope as a destination</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Robert Louis Stevenson
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said 'It is better to travel hopefully than arrive', indicating how hope
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can be a pleasant in itself. In particular, hope is often tinged with the fear both that you will not
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get what you want, and also that even when you achieve your goal, it will not be as perfect as
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your fantasized eventualities.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">As a result, many
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people are happy just to hope. All you need to do is offer them this, as all
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casinos do to their hapless customers. Many such punters will merrily gamble away until their
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money is all gone, then return time and again just to experience that temporary thrill of hope.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="6"><span style="font-size:24pt"><b>So what?</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Use hope in persuasion
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through the non-linear relationship between perception and reality.
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Build optimism by showing how real the chances of success are. Move people away from
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things by highlighting the chances of failure. </span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Beware, however,
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of betrayal effects. If the other person's hopes are dashed and you are
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perceived as the culprit, then you will become the target of their revenge.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="4"><span style="font-size:14pt"><b>Making up</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Charles Revson,
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the founder of the Revlon cosmetics company, once famously commented that
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what they really sold was hope. (For some it is realistic hope, for others it is perhaps more like
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desperation.) Paradoxically make-up can also sow false seeds of hope in the other party. If I
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wear make-up, I am actually selling myself as more than I really am. There have been many
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cracks about the other person being beautiful the night before but not the morning after.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="4"><span style="font-size:14pt"><b>Gambling dens</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">As a very real
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example of managed hope in action, look no further than the nearest casino or
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gambling den. Casinos dangle large sums and glittering prizes whilst making the hoping as
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pleasant as possible with salubrious surroundings, free drinks, attractive members of the
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opposite sex and so on.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">The gamblers are
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trapped in a cocoon of warmth as their money is steadily leeched away from
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them (note how the reality of money itself is hidden behind tokens and credit, preventing the
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unreality bubble from being burst).</span></font><span></span></div></div>
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