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6.9.4 Desire
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<span class=outlineNumberFirst>6.9.4 </span><span class=topicLineFirst>Desire</span>
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<div class="topicTextNotes"><div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>Desire is</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Desire happens
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when we want something. The strength of that desire can range from weak
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'would like to sometime' to a raging thirst to possess something now. </span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">The paradox of
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desire, however, is that once we have got what we desired, we no longer
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desire it and hence may no longer find it attractive in any way. People get trapped by this
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pattern, for example in the way they chase members of the opposite sex, only to dump them
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when they have captured their affections.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Note the difference
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between love and desire. I can love a person but not desire them. Desire is
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the need to possess. Arguably, true love is not about possessing at all.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Desire is the opposite
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of </span></font><a href="Fear.html#Topic20" ><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">fear</span></font></a><font
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face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">. Desire attract us towards something.
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Fear makes us want to run
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away.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>Triggering desire</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Desire is triggered
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when we see or think about something we want.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Desire increase
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when what we want is visible, but just out of reach. It may also increase when
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we have closer contact with the item, but which we still do not possess. Supermarkets know
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this well, as they place foods and other items right under our noses.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Desire also increase
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with teasing, where we are offered something, and it is taken away,
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offered back, taken away. A variant of this is where the item is only available for a limited
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period. This is an example of the Scarcity Principle. This is seen in shops in the regular 'sales'
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they hold.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="6"><span style="font-size:24pt"><b>So what?</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Desire is the opposite
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of fear, and as such is a far more useful emotion in persuasion. There are
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many ways of increasing desire, such as showing how it will result in the admiration of others or
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making it available for a limited period only.</span></font><span></span></div></div>
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