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<span class=outlineNumberFirst>6.9.11 </span><span class=topicLineFirst>Pride</span>
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<div class="topicTextNotes"><div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>Something achieved</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">When we achieve
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a goal, we feel good about ourselves. A common part of this is feeling
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proud, where our self-respect and feelings of worth are boosted. In this way, our sense of
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identity is increased.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Pride also can
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be in ownership, for example in a new car, although this really is again pride in
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achievement - for example in having acquired the the car and the status that goes with it.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Pride is greater
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when we have had to work hard for something, as this makes the achievement
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more worthwhile.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>Meeting high
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standards</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Pride is particularly
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useful when it helps us to maintain standards. I am proud of my professional
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abilities and will work hard to maintain them.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="4"><span style="font-size:14pt"><b>A unifying force</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Pride can also
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be a unifying force in a group of people, such as when a team achieves a difficult
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challenge or lives up to its high standards. It has historically been used by leaders to encourage
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a depressed organization or country to feel good again.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">In the negative
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sense, it can be used as a coercion, in the sense that you <i>must</i> feel proud to
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belong to our group. It is often used by governments to enthuse a people towards war.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Hitler, for example,
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used it to rally the German nation after the defeat of the first world war and
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the subsequent ruin. How he then used it to persuade them into terrible acts is well
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documented. This is an approach used by more than one politician.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="5"><span style="font-size:18pt"><b>Superiority</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Pride in itself
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is not a bad thing and can be very useful for maintaining standards. However, it is
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named as one of the Seven Deadly Sins in recognition of its shadow side, where it ends up in
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my feeling overly superior to other people.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">When pride becomes
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more extreme, we extend and enhance our feeling of achievement by
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comparing ourselves with others, feeling superior to them. This is where pride becomes socially
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undesirable and it breaks the rule that says 'we are all equal' (or at least we should pretend that
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this is so).</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">In this case, pride
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can be measured as the gap between what you have achieved or acquired
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and that of other people. Millionaires can thus be very proud people (although of course this is
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not necessarily the case). </span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">The saying 'Pride
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goes before a fall' is an indication of how pride can lead to a self- importance
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that leads me to ignore risks (perhaps on the assumption that I am so superior the risks will not
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dare to happen to me).</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="6"><span style="font-size:24pt"><b>So what?</b></span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Have reasonable
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pride yourself and beware of it going over the edge into a superiority complex.</span></font><span></span></div>
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<div align="left"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"><span style="font-size:12pt">Pumping up the
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other person's pride such that they cannot see what you are really doing is a
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surprisingly common thing. How often do we flatter other people without really meaning what
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we say? When we flatter others, we usually have a persuasive ulterior motive.</span></font><span></span></div></div>
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